how to pull yourself out of loneliness so you don’t have to marry an AI:
> get off your phone
> say yes to everything for 3 months - the best nights are unplanned
> talk to strangers - at coffee shops, events, literally anywhere. serendipity maxx
> interesting people attract interesting people... START doing things that make you feel ALIVE!
> take a random class just for fun - pottery, dance, improv, cooking
> try new things even if it doesn't "make sense" - a new walk to work, new restaurant, new coffee shop. magic happens in serendipity
> hangout in public places just because - read a book at a coffee shop or at a park (with headphones OUT)
> make a bucket list and work your way through said bucket list!!
> reach out to friends who you haven't talked to in a while
> create a full life outside of dating - hobbies, friends, goals - it makes you more attractive AND happier
> stop treating every date like it could be "the one" - just have FUN meeting someone new
> it's okay if it's been a while connecting with people... take baby steps to integrate yourself back into the real world!!
> fully EMBODY that the world WANTS to meet you & connect with you!!
humans need CONNECTION from HUMANS!!!
you got this!!!
Ruby 🇺🇸🇩🇴 (@ruby_rafaelina)
It gets so much worse
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