intellectual capability matters in dating
this does NOT mean you need to have the same interests. but finding someone with a similar level of depth, curiosity, or intellect is what fuels a relationship intellectually - it's a reasonable (& encouraged) thirst to have in dating
mikayla (@honeyNonABG)
Went on dates with guys who made >$700k and had wiki pages and the first thing they would complain about when they got comfortable on the date was that they didn’t like “dumb” girls they couldn’t talk to.
I found it strange that this man prioritized the ability to converse more than I thought because when we’d walk around in public, people would recognize him. It wasn’t just about looks.
I had one guy friend that would go on to make >$200k right out of college. And even when we were poor college kids, mid way thru a date with a cute girl, he made up an excuse that he had a work emergency come up at his part time job, paid the bill, and left.
He told me it was actually because he got super bored.
Had another man worth >$1M, self made, by his early 30s. He kept complimenting me on my side hustles and career. Said I understood because we were in the same fields.
There is a certain type of man that does care about looks but equally cares about the ability to converse if not more.
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