there are patterns RUNNING show in your life & asking to be fixed
> same heartbreak, different partners
> dissatisfaction in work, different jobs
> same loneliness, different friend groups
they WILL keep replaying until you take the time to pause, listen, and understand what it is asking to be seen.
it usually happens when (1) you've had enough of your own BS & are tired of playing the same situation again & again
(2) stop to realize external changes won't fix an internal hole
(3) understand where the hole is coming from
(4) heal what is asking to be seen
سيدة (@Ajoke__xx)
Somewhere in your 20s or 30s you’ll get the opportunity to rebuild your life after a negative loop, heal from what broke you, live in your own space, reconnect with your discipline, and learn to love yourself again. It’s very important that you see that journey through.
— https://nitter.net/Ajoke__xx/status/2063715735252185501#m